{"id":466,"date":"2023-08-24T11:48:34","date_gmt":"2023-08-24T10:48:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thingsistillremember.wordpress.com\/?p=466"},"modified":"2023-08-25T12:57:54","modified_gmt":"2023-08-25T12:57:54","slug":"a-letter-to-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thethingsiremember.co.uk\/index.php\/2023\/08\/24\/a-letter-to-me\/","title":{"rendered":"A letter to me.."},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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I’ve a feeling my sis picked the wrong person to message to about me in her usual passive aggressive tones. It goes as follows:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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<\/p>\n”Hi S, hope you\u2019re ok. I know your friends with Jo and I was wondering if she is having a mental breakdown or something. She\u2019s posted in public and private messaged some really nasty stuff over the years to me, some really evil and I don\u2019t really get what she\u2019s trying to get out of it. I\u2019ve seen the stuff on her blog and it\u2019s just jibberish crap mainly or sheer nastiness. I just wondered if she had lost the plot or something. She even had a go at me in a nasty way about me returning to Leeds straight after my first trip cos my daughter J’s boyfriend had died, she didn\u2019t even care about that and that I kept it quiet for that reason, she was just more interested about putting me down for it. I was in Leeds in July to see my daughters new baby, which she is also not interested in and will see her again very soon. I have no interest in seeing Jo again ever after the bitter and twisted things shes said. Sorry to put this on you but I think she really needs to see a doctor or someone about her mental health. Anyway hope you are well and I\u2019m really sorry to hear about your gran. Take care”<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Of course my sister knew I would be shown this, trouble is in her narcissism she’s missed the point. She caused problems for the very person she wrote to. Emotional intelligence has never been her strong point. Oh dear…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I’ve a feeling my sis picked the wrong person to message to about me in her usual passive aggressive tones. It goes as follows: ”Hi S, hope you\u2019re ok. I know your friends with Jo and I was wondering if she is having a mental breakdown or something. She\u2019s posted…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":529,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[10,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-466","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sometime-around-now","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thethingsiremember.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/1-scaled.jpg?fit=1707%2C2560&ssl=1","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thethingsiremember.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/466","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thethingsiremember.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thethingsiremember.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thethingsiremember.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thethingsiremember.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=466"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/thethingsiremember.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/466\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":530,"href":"https:\/\/thethingsiremember.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/466\/revisions\/530"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thethingsiremember.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/529"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thethingsiremember.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=466"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thethingsiremember.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=466"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thethingsiremember.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=466"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}